Intombazana yavuthela umfana kuba engakwazi ukumanga okanye ukujola. Useyintombi nto. Ngoko umama ulungile - intombi kufuneka incedise umnakwabo ukuba abe yindoda. Kwaye umama ebengayi kumnqwenelela nto imbi. Ngethamsanqa umntwana unabazali abahambele phambili ngolo hlobo.
Ukwabelana ngesondo ebusheni bunemiba evuyisayo: imizimba emihle kumaqabane amabini, ukukhululeka okukhulu, ukuzimisela ukunceda, nakumbandela wokunciphisa uxinzelelo lwezesondo. Lo dade wabona ukuba umnakwabo uqaqadekile, ephelelwa ngumoya, waza ke wagqiba kwelokuba amunyise aze amvumele amteketise. Ekugqibeleni bavuswa, baqala ukukhwela ekhitshini kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.
Loo ntongomane ilungile, ixabisa ukukhothwa.